Jess was outstanding. A real professional coach who knows how to unleash the best from a team of academics and practitioners. We really saw the value and the dedication. Beautiful work.
MODULE LEADER AND LECTURER, UNIVERSITY OF EAST LONDON
Hi I'm Jess
and I believe we can all do relationships better.
Hi I'm Jess
and I believe we can all do relationships better.
Becoming architects of our own relationships...
Most of us didn’t learn how to do relationships at school. And as grown-ups, we often focus on our individual performance, wellbeing or productivity.
But we are always in relationship to one another; we are part of many complex ‘relational systems’ – couples, families, teams, communities. We constantly impact each other and are impacted upon. And the quality of these relationships directly affects our collective performance, happiness and growth – relationships really do make the difference.
What if the partnership or team we’re in – be it professional or personal – is ‘just the way it is’, that the dynamic was set at the beginning and can’t be changed?
I believe we can proactively decide how we want to inter-relate, we can create, and even co-create it. By focussing on both ‘self’ and ‘system’, we can become the architects of our relationships, at home and at work.
Self and System offers systemic coaching for leaders, teams and relationships.
My business partner and I engaged Jess to assist us in sorting out a number of serious relationship issues. Jess’s coaching enabled us to realign and reshape things business-wise as well as personally. I really appreciated how she was curious, open and direct and always treated us with lots of respect. No doubt, without Jess’ coaching we would not have managed to put things back on track. I am really grateful for her services!’
